To be a "social butterfly", you have to have a certain level of confidence. Confidence in yourself, your ability to interact with other people, that you have something to say, and that you are the best that you can be.
Which brings me to a discussion that I have been reluctant to voice, but feel I cannot be silent about any longer. Yes, I'm sure you are all tired of hearing about Heidi Montag and her plastic surgeries as am I, but there is a bigger issue at stake - the way women feel about themselves. While I do not care much for Miss Montag, I feel sorry for her. She is 23 years old and has had countless plastic surgeries to try to turn herself into what she thinks is physical perfection. Unfortunately, I see this type of behavior, though not quite this extreme, not only in young women, but in older women as well. For some reason, they feel that they are not good enough, even when they are smart, in shape and beautiful.
Trying to change one's appearance drastically on the surface is never going to give you real self confidence. Embrace the characteristics that make you you! If we all went around being perfect clones, life would be SO boring. There are so many different and diverse kinds of beauty in the world. People respond to others who exude confidence and are comfortable with who they are. Obviously, Heidi is not comfortable with who she is and never has been. While my personal opinion of her is that she is a superficial numb-skull, she absolutely, as far as her looks go, she was a beautiful, cute, sweet looking girl. Now she looks like a human Barbie doll.
She's 23. No one needs liposuction at 23! Most women who are in there 40's, 50's or 60's don't NEED botox, they just think they do.
My point is, if you have confidence, you won't need these things. You love yourself enough to be ok with maybe that tiny bit of cellulite- every woman has some, no matter how in shape she is. Look at Jennifer Lopez. She has an amazing body, but yes, she has some cellulite. Be ok with a line or two-it shows you've had a life and you have lived it. Know yourself. Love yourself.
Be the best you can be by doing those things, not succumbing to superficial procedures that take away from who you really are. You are a woman, you are amazing!